I had my first appointment today and I got some great news. I was approved for the waiver appointment! I am now officially closer to being home than the first time around in 2009. I was approved at the appointment in 2009, but a few weeks later got a letter saying that I was approved by mistake and had to wait three years. It took 2 tries and a year and a half, but I got through it and can start on the next step now.
The appointment was very short and to the point. I was only asked when I came to the US (1991), how I got there (my parents carried me accross the river), and when I returned to Mexico (2009). The officer asked if I had tried to cross back since I was denied in 2009 and I said no. She asked me if I have been using drugs, and I said no and the drug tests from the medical exam were clean so that was all. I am guessing that I was not asked about my marriage and relationship since I had been interviewed once before and she had all the answers. I had a big packet of proof of our relationship that we had been collecting over the last few weeks, but she didn't want any of it. It is weird that I only have that appointment because I am married to Emma, but she wasn't brought up once so it was like she isn't a part of the application.
After the consular officer was done asking me questions, she told me I have a 10 year bar from unlawfully being in the United States and informed me that I qualified for a waiver to the bar. Until recently, I would have been given a form right then to schedule my waiver appointment, but since the immigration process is going through some changes, I have to wait until it is mailed to me before I can schedule the appointment. We don't know how long it will take for the letter to arrive at the office in Monterrey. Luckily, our lawyer informed me that she has been successful in scheduling some waiver appointments without having to wait until the form is sent. She will try to schedule an appointment as soon as possible and let us know what she finds out. The waiver appointment is usually around 8 weeks from when the appointment is scheduled. At this next appointment I will be submitting a hardship packet that will be used to determine if my visa is approved within a couple of weeks and I get to go home, or if I will have to wait for 8-10 moths from the waiver appointment before I get my visa.